What I’m Looking For

In one of Krauser’s older posts, he mentions sitting down and writing out what you actually find attractive in girls.  From there you then distill that down further to core principles.  For instance, my entire “Looks” category could reduce to “young and feminine with high estrogen.”

What follows is my generalized “list.”

And yes, I know it is impossible for a single girl to have every single thing on the list.  These are desirable traits, not a have-to-have bullet-point checklist.


  • Overall Girly (skirts, dresses, pearls, etc.)
  • Shoulder length or longer hair
  • Bright eyes
  • Curvy in its actual meaning (0.6 H/W ratio, B cup or larger)
  • Clear skin
  • Light makeup
  • No visible tattoos
  • Not fat
  • Appropriately attired


  • Positive/Sunny/Half-full glass outlook
  • Feminine
  • Laid back, Easygoing
  • Honest
  • Low Maintenance
  • Smiles (includes eyes, important!)
  • Not impulsive
  • Responsible
  • Sense of humor/Can take a joke
  • Not slutty
  • Isn’t glued to a smartphone
  • Friendly
  • Not a slave to pop culture or TV shows
  • Slightly introverted
  • Hates/Doesn’t deliberately cause drama
  • Good relationship with her Mother and Father


  • Low partner number
  • Comfortable with her body
  • Doesn’t rush straight to sex (knows importance of foreplay)
  • Sexual
  • Doesn’t try to imitate porn stars’ sounds/exclamations
  • Not afraid of pair-bonding

“Living” Skills

  • Knows how to cook
  • Knows value of money (not living paycheck-to-paycheck due to frivolous spending)
  • Very little debt (Maximum of 2 non-maxed credit cards)
  • Can balance a checkbook
  • Has clean/not messy apartment or bedroom (cleans regularly)
  • Good personal hygiene/Clean
  • Not a smoker (can bend if only occasionally)
  • Drinks socially, but not to blackout levels
  • Goes to gym regularly/Works out
  • Eats at restaurants every once in a while, not every meal

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